tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-87294136435493218172024-03-13T00:41:05.047-04:00We Cover the ParshaLeesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.comBlogger44125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-54166032627285437372015-12-04T09:13:00.001-05:002015-12-04T09:13:54.648-05:00Parshas Vayeisheiv 5776, December 2015; PatternsWhy and how did Yaakov favor his son Yosaif, and what were the repercussions of the favoritism of Yosaif over his 10 older brothers?<br />
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Yosaif was the son of Yaakov's favorite wife Rochel (Rashi); he had the greatness to deserve the avoda like his brother Reuvain, the royal nobility of his brother Yehuda, was as fit for prophecy as Levi, and had the wisdom of Yissachar (l'fi chazal); and there were many parallels between Yosaif's life and Yaakov's own, including the prophetic dreams emanating directly from G-d (Midrash Tanchuma, Beraishis Rabbah).<br />
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For these reasons, Yaakov learned Torah privately with Yosaif including giving him secret teachings he didn't share with his other sons (Tanchuma); he gave him a special garment; and he excepted him from physical or manual labor (Tiferet Zion).<br />
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And what happened from all of this? Hatred, betrayal, and ultimately servitude and exile.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">May we be redeemed for our love of Torah!</td></tr>
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What do we see here except an exact parallel to the history of the Jewish people! G-d favors B'nai Yisroel; we are the sons and daughters of the Biblical Patriarchs and Matriarchs; we have been given the avoda and tefilla, nobility, prophecy, and wisdom. G-d gave us the Torah to learn its secrets; special garments and halachos and minhagim about what we wear and how we comport ourselves; and gave us time to learn Torah and a love of doing so even when we must labor.<br />
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We have suffered hatred, betrayal, and exile.<br />
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But just as Yosaif was redeemed and elevated to sit at Pharoah's side, so B'nai Yisroel will soon be lifted to G-d's own throne-side. On these dark days of winter (for those of us in the Northern Hemisphere), with sad and frightening news all around us, we can only pray for Moshiach to arrive soon in our own days to redeem us as Yosaif himself was raised up.Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-4338425355543653312015-11-19T15:39:00.000-05:002015-11-19T15:39:09.496-05:00Parshas Vayaitzay 5776, November 2015; InclusionAt the beginning of this week's parsha, Yaakov flees from his brother Aisav, but Aisav (according to <b>Midrash Tanchuma</b>) or his son Elifaz (according to most sources) pursued him, stole all the goods he carried and even his mount and clothing, and left him naked and completely destitute.<br />
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He encounters Rochel and through her, her sister Leah, whom we are told (<b>Bereishis Rabbah</b>) had weak eyes and poor eyesight due to her years of prayer and crying to G-d to save her from marrying the even Aisav. Further, in next week's parsha (jumping ahead just a bit) we read how Yaakov encountered the protective angel of Edom, the nation of Aisav, fought with the angel, and was injured permanently in the leg.<br />
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We know that gifts given to G-d as karbanos in any form must be perfect. Yet we learn here that the father of the entire nation and the first wife and mother of fully half that nation each had specific disabilities. What can this tell us?<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Those with invisible, intellectual and/or developmental disabilities<br />can be included in the community. It's dependent and incumbent <br />on the community and its constituent members to be inclusive.</td></tr>
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It teaches us that humans are not the same as things, and that every single human of any ability is precious in G-d's eyes as any other. If anything, they are especially precious given this precedent. It is incumbent on all of the nation of Israel therefore to ensure that those with any form of disability should feel as honored as the mother or father of our entire nation. Surely theirs are the most special neshamos and they are the most like Yaakov and Leah we will find in our lifetimes.Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-35993195370453163612015-11-06T15:28:00.002-05:002015-11-06T15:28:40.169-05:00Parshas Chayei Sarah
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">For L’iluy Nishmas</span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">THE ENTIRE BEAUTY/GLORY OF THE
KING’S DAUGHTER IS WITHIN</span></i><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;"> [PS. 45:12]</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">The name of our
Parsha this week is, Parshas Chayei, the life of Sarah and yet it begins with
her death. The light from the candles of Sarah’s tent went out, but not
forever. They would glow once again when Rivkah comes and marries Yitzchak. Thus,
her life is the focus for this week’s D’var Torah.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">Rivkah Immeinu
[our mother] teaches what it means to be a frum Jewish woman in a world that is
not. Thus, this week I am writing for women and hope that men too can
appreciate the beauty of the King’s daughters.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Although there are many excellent sources from which to
learn about what it means to be Tzinius/modest, my references are from a small book
entitled,</span></div>
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Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem M. Schneerson,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">[Sichos in
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">This book is
about two particular mitzvot, Tzinius and Kisui HaRosh [head covering] but I
see them reflected in the life of Rivkah in a manner that is very much alive
for us today.</span></div>
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blessed with good health, sustenance, and much <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">nachas</i>---true <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">nachas---</i>from
children and grandchildren [p.11] </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">The Torah teaches
us that even when the Jews were captives in Egypt, they kept their distinctive
modest dress and this led to Hashem’s blessing then and it still does today.
Although every frum community may have slightly different standards for length
of sleeve, neckline and skirt or dress hem, modesty is the unifying theme with
the clear understanding that we are not to be conformed by the world’s
standard’s, but as the Rebbe teaches, we are to elevate the world to holiness;
which is indeed our standard. [p. 13-17] </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">But what if the
world, or more specifically other women simply do not care? My thought is that the
strength of true inner beauty always shines outward.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It encourages and inspires others to want the same dignity.
Ladies, we are daughters of the King, let us present ourselves as royalty, not
to hold ourselves above anyone else, but to give confidence to others to be
their best. Notice, I’m not talking about style; style is a personal choice,
rather I’m talking about creating an atmosphere that rejoices in purity and
strengthens us to pull Moshiach into our very desperate world. But is being
Tziniusdik just about clothing?</span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">The entire beauty/glory of the king’s daughter is within</span></i><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;"> [Ps. 45:12]. From this we learn that modesty is about our thoughts, the
way we speak, act, and dress. And this is where we meet up with Rivkah at
coming toward Eliezer with a water pitcher on her shoulder [24:17f].As most of
us are familiar with this parsha, I will be touching on the points that our
germane to our conversation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Immediately we see that Rivkah’s life is about serving others, Eliezer
is a stranger accompanied by camels and men and yet this young girl pours out
all of her water for him to quench his thirst and then runs to get more for the
animals and the others who are with him.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>This is what Tzinius looks like. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yes, there will be great reward for her fine character Rivkah
will be adorned with gold, but she is not a magpie following after every shiny
object, rather it is both the reason for Eliezer’s journey and her own precious
neshamah/soul that compels her to leave her mother and home. Truly, it is her
decision whether she stays or goes, but the blessing for her choice is
monumental:</span></div>
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sister, may you be [the one] to produce tens of millions, </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">I know that we
are of Rivkah’s lineage and therefore share in this blessing, but I am still in
awe that it actually does apply to us as well. My sisters, may this reality
permeate our lives in tangible ways. As we move on to the mitzvah of Kisui
HaRosh, we see that by taking on this mitzvah of covering our hair that it
draws down blessing from above. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">I am not
concerned with the “debate” over sheitel [wig] vs. wrapping with scarves, only
with hair covering and the blessing that ensues.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">From the
book, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Beautiful Within,</i> the Rebbe quoting
several sources wrote, </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">“<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Her children will enjoy increased stature
over other children; moreover, her husband shall be blessed with all blessings,
blessings of above and blessings of below, with wealth, with children and
grandchildren, etc.” [p. 20]</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">I know many
Jewish women who do not cover their hair as well as non-Jewish women who do. I
can only speak from my own experience as a Ba’al Teshuvah who has taken on this
mitzvah. The blessings really have come into my mishpocha/family life just as
the quote above speaks. No, we aren’t gazillionaire’s but there have been
shidduchs, grandchildren, Yiddishe nachas, and simcha that far outweigh our
struggles. Boruch Hashem. For those of who are frum, it is my sincere hope that
this mitzvah is something we proudly share with others that they too will
experience the revealed goodness that we have seen. Now, let us turn back to
Rivkah Immeinu.</span></div>
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saw camels approaching. Rivkah looked up and saw Yitzchak, and she leaned down
from the top of her camel…so she took her veil and covered herself. [24:63-65]</span></i></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">Just as we saw
Rivkah’s innate middos/character to serve others when she met Eliezer, here we
see humility and modesty before the man who would become her husband. And to
this day, the following lines fill me with joy and profound hope, </span></div>
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He married Rivkah, and she became his wife and he loved her, and Yitzchak was
comforted after [the death of] his mother. [24:67]</span></i></div>
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embrace the Tziniusdik life style of Rivkah Immeinu and be the ones to bring
comfort as well as be the conduit of find blessings for our families, Eretz
Yisroel, our nation, and the world.</span></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-75861439171826599152015-11-05T20:08:00.000-05:002015-11-05T20:08:21.662-05:00Chayei Sarah 5776, November 2015; Facing adversityIn a well known commentary, <b>Rashi</b> explains why the beginning of the parsha enumerates the years of Sarah Imeinu's life separately by digit, stating that all her years were equally good. <b>Rabbi Steven Pruzansky</b> asks, by what standards were they equally good? During her life, among the experiences enumerated by the Torah, Sarah has suffered infertility for decades, been kidnapped from her husband twice, left her home and family behind, opened her home to all who asked to visit, dealt with Hagar with whom she had a negative relationship at least part of the time, and ultimately saw in a vision her beloved son bound to an alter about to be sacrificed. Her behavior may always have been above reproach, but how were her years all intrinsically good and moreover equally so?<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Even helping in the yard can be joyful and good when you<br />are at an age when you can appreciate the good in everything easily.</td></tr>
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He quotes <b>R' Dovid Hofstadter</b> that good means spiritually successful; that Sarah may have had more tests from HaKadosh Baruch H- and passed them all due to her inherent goodness. Also, living through a negative experience but triumphing over it may better the one who experiences it. It leads ultimately to the perfection of the soul.<br />
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The good Rashi discusses here then is not just that which is given to us, for we know that everything G-d does is for the best; but also our own responses and behavioral learning have the opportunity to improve over and over, becoming more and more spiritually perfect. No matter what trials befall us--and we certainly can agree that even if Sarah's experiences had to be good because they came from G-d, they none the less were stressful, troublesome, with a strong potential to be appreciated as negative--they may be negative, they may be difficult, they may be painful. Our responses can fairly be negative, angry, sad. Yet simultaneously we always have the opportunity to turn each moment into a positive in some way in our soul and our heart.Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-20427725306520575952015-10-30T16:33:00.002-04:002015-10-30T16:33:56.157-04:00What Was The Last Big Thing G-d Asked You To Do?
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">What Was The Last Big Thing G-D Asked You To Do?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Parshas Vayeira</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Parshas Vayeira, which means, “He appeared,” opens on a very
hot day near Hebron; so blisteringly hot that Rashi describes it as Hashem
having taken the sun out of its sheath in order that there would not be any
travelers walking by for Avraham to care for as he healed from his
circumcision. [Chayenu: Cf. Rashi <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Tehillim
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Moreover, we learn from Rashi that because Avraham could not
fulfill this aspect of his Divine Service, he was upset; in his mind, his pain
was not an impediment to his desire to be a paramount of hospitality. His
mission to share with the world the truth of monotheism, that there is only One
G-D, gave him such joy that not being able to do so left him feeling discontent.
Right here we should ask doesn’t Hashem know what’s best for Avraham and by
extension, what is best for us when it comes to all aspects of life? I have no
doubt that each and every one of us is going to say, “yes.” But it is Hashem’s
response to Avraham’s sadness that I want us to consider: it’s true that no
humans wander by because it is as we New Englanders say, “still a scorcher,”
but three angels, three spirit beings come near to Avraham’s tent and his and
Sarah’s desire to serve others is made possible. What might we learn from this?
No doubt each of us takes something personal away from this event, for me, I am
encouraged to remember that the purpose for which Hashem brought our
Neshama/soul to earth is always under His watchful eye and as we stay the
course, He gives us both physical and spiritual chizik/strength, and joy to
carry on. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Parshas Vayeira continues on with the story of Lot, the destruction
of Sedom and Amorah, the seduction of Lot by his daughters and Avraham and
Sarah’s travel into Gerar where their encounter with Avimelech occurs. All of
this a treasure trove ready for you to glean but I want to continue with this
week’s theme, of the biggest thing Hashem has ever asked you to do. When we
look at the life of Avraham we see many “big” things asked of him: leave your
father’s house and go somewhere that you don’t really know, then when he’s 99
years old to circumcise himself, and finally when his son Yitzchak, his son of
covenant is 37, he hears this, “Please take your son, your only, the one whom
you love, Yitzchak, and go to the land of Moriah. Take him up there as a burnt
offering…” [22:2] This is the last of the ten tests that Avraham faced. What
test are you facing?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">The common understanding of this scene is that Hashem asked
Avraham to sacrifice his son. Indeed the father and son climb the mountain with
Yitzchak carrying the wood and Avraham carrying the fire and a knife. Next, we
see that the son allows himself to be bound on the altar, [he had to be
willing, after all he is a 37 year old man] and then the uplifted hand of the
father holding the knife, “so as to slaughter his son.” [25:10] Before we
rejoice because of the heavenly intervention, I just have to ask, “What did
Hashem ask Avraham to do?” This is a vital question because the text only says
to’ “Take him up there as a burnt offering.” Does G-D ask Avraham to slaughter
Yitzchak? Rashi and many other commentators tell us no, only to bring him as a
burnt offering. So, what does this mean for us? There is an excellent article
on Chabad.org concerning the Laws of the Burnt Offering/Karbanot Olah by Moshe
Bogomilsky that is worth the read. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">There are many aspects to the Laws of the Karbanot Olah, but
for today let’s consider that no part of the burnt offering was given to the
Kohanim; the entire offering was burnt on the altar. No one but Hashem received
this offering and this is the reality shared between Avraham, Yitzchak, and
Hashem. The reward it brought was the doubling and redoubling of the blessing. Today
there is no Temple to which we bring our offerings; prayer has become our
offering accepted by Hashem at His request. When our tests are bigger than we
think we can handle, it seems to me that it is the time to make sure that we
dig deeply in to the words of Torah, seek advice from our leaders in case there
is something that we are misunderstanding and remember that our prayers are the
burnt offerings that we lay upon the altar trusting that Hashem hears each and
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-45019761433712925702015-10-22T14:29:00.003-04:002015-10-22T14:29:59.805-04:00Parshas Lech Lecha 5776, October 2015, Avodas Hash-mMany people focus on Avraham Avinu in this week's parsha thoughts, though last year I discussed how central Sarah Imeinu actually is. Tangentially, we referred to Shem ben Noach's role in the parsha, and it is him whom I want to discuss this year.<br />
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While Avraham and Sarah were known to be leading others towards fear of G-d and Noahide laws, it must be remembered that Shem, the son of Noach, was at that time already leading what is referred to as a yeshiva, a home of higher Torah study at this time before the giving of the Torah itself. While the forefathers and mothers are known to have observed the laws of the Torah due to their prophetic vision and inner sensitivity to G-d's laws, this obviously cannot have been the basis of Shem's students' learning. While Shem himself was a tzaddik, his students were simply those who had learned to appreciate the ways go G-d from Avraham and felt they needed further instruction. They were not Jews and there was no suggestion that they would inherit the Torah themselves; they were simply those who were most inspired and possibly most intellectual among those who learned from Avraham.<br />
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Shem, in fact, aside from acting as the greatest in-depth teacher of G-d's law in the land, also had inherited the kehuna, the rights of the priestly first born, as the oldest son of Noach. He and his brothers and their wives were the only humans (after the death of their father and mother) who knew exactly what life had been like in the time before the great flood--a time when children were conceived and born within one day, infants were born with the ability to walk and speak, humans had enormous strength, no suffering was known, crops were sown only every 40 years for continuous harvesting, and the climate worldwide was mild (<b>Midrash HaGadol, Midrash Bereishis</b>). No suffering of any kind was known. It was under those conditions that mankind fell away from appreciation of G-d's gifts and took them all for granted. Shem could explain directly how things had changed and how man must appreciate what he does have and the gifts G-d does give, even if they are not as extensive as those before the flood.<br />
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Yet Shem lost the rights to the priesthood to Avraham and his descendants (eventually to the Kohanim of the tribe of Levi). Despite his extensive knowledge, his great appreciation for the gifts bestowed by G-d, and his ability to transmit appreciation of Torah values to his students, he failed to show honor to G-d in front of Avraham. When he and Avram greater each other, each sure the other would be angry (Avram had slain Shem's unrighteous son Kedarlaomer in war; Avram was sure Shem would want revenge for his family while Shem was sure Avram bore a grudge that Shem would have such an unworthy son who had threatened Avram's life). Rather than curse Avram, Shem blessed Avram and G-d, but in that order, placing Avram and his honor first (<b>Midrash Nidarim Lev</b>). For this mistake committed by one who had always held G-d's teachings and primacy in his heart, Shem lost the rights to the priesthood.<br />
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So we must always have G-d foremost in our hearts and in our speech as well. Our own honor, that of others around us, are nothing compared to G-d's. We must take care though not to justify our own actions as being sanctified by dedication to G-d's honor though. Only through very extensive and deep Torah study can we come to know what G-d truly wants of each of us. It's simple to take the first steps though; simply follow the laws as you learn them, and primarily those of self-conduct. Behave towards others as though the first words from your mouth will always be a blessing of G-d and of the other person's actions, as Shem should have done and Avram did.Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-59662477488724216282015-10-16T10:46:00.001-04:002015-10-16T10:46:21.370-04:00Parshas Noach: Contrasts in Light and Darkness
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">The unpacking of any parsha requires
thorough language study as well as commentaries, research into Talmud, Midrash and
for many of us, Chassidus. As much as that path will bring both a depth and
breadth of understanding and erudition, most of us just don’t study at that
level.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If we are not a Talmid
Chacham/Torah scholar, how can we hope to deepen our knowledge and love for the
“Instruction” of our G-d? Since we read the Torah anew each year, I always hope
to find something that I haven’t seen before or make a connection with the text
in a new way. This year our journey with Parshas Noach begins with his name, which
means rest and tranquility. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Since
personal names, names of angels as well as place names are of great
significance in the Torah, how do we juxtapose tranquility and rest with the
destruction leveled on the earth by the flood? I think that the answer to this
question is found toward the conclusion of the parsha and comes in the form of
a choice.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“Noach was a righteous man, perfect in his
generations”(6:9) Here in the beginning of our parsha, it would make more sense
if Noach’s name had been a word such as Tzaddik or any other appellation that
means righteous or righteousness because that is in-line with what Hashem says
about him. But rest and tranquility are a complete opposite of the world around
him. Noach’s story is full of juxtapositions and choices including those made
by his family members and in particular his sons, Shem, Cham and Yefes. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">We are only one parsha away from the
beginning of the Torah. In Parshas Bereshith darkness and light are created and
separated, Gan Eden is created and when Adam and Chava will <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">fall, </i>good and evil are exposed. That theme
continues in Parshas Noach and so the Torah tells a similar story, but in a new
place and new way; more layers added to the concept of choice. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Amidst the deep darkness and perversion
that the world had known since the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Fall</i>,
there shone a singular light, his name was Noach and Hashem spoke to him,
telling him to build something called an ark. Noach must have wondered about
this building project called, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">ARK</i>,
but he obediently built one; after all, he had heard Hashem’s voice. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Can you imagine clearly hearing the voice
of the Creator King of the universe, being obedient for so many years in the
face of a world that thinks that you have gone mad? It seems to me that this kind
of hearing goes beyond the physical ability to apprehend sound and into a
supernatural realm where truly only the righteous stand. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am always awestruck when I ponder how
the righteousness of one man, a husband, and father was enough to bring to
safety his wife, his sons, and their wives. I believe that there is a lesson
that we can glean from this reality. It is clear that a combination of good
deeds, obedience to the Word of G-d and covenant are our eternal connection to
Hashem no matter in which generation we find ourselves. And even though it is
jumping ahead in our text, as with Noach, covenant still holds even if we “mess
up.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Perhaps this is a piece of
tranquility and rest that we can all share during these particularly turbulent
days.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So, we see darkness and light,
righteousness and corruption, a safe haven and an impending disaster and our
journey continues.</span></div>
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ark come of their own volition. We have male and female pairs that will repopulate
a cleansed world and here we have a new juxtaposition to talk about, not the gender,
but how many pairs of clean versus unclean animals board the ark. In Judaism,
there are many aspects to the number seven and that is how many pairs of kosher
animals come into the ark. But for our conversation, I just want to note the
7:1 ratio stacks the deck [all puns intended] in favor of purity and cleanness
to out weigh impurity and treif/uncleanness when the animals finally leave the
ark and set out to live in nature once again. This contrast between clean and
unclean animals applies to both the raven and the dove. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">There is wonderful aggadic material that
you can find concerning the raven in the Talmud, (Sanhedrin 108b) and in (Pirkei
D’Rabbi Eliezer 23). For today it is enough to acknowledge that the raven is not
a kosher bird, but the dove is, moreover the dove is a gentle herbivorous
creature while the raven is an aggressive flesh-eating scavenger. If we depart
from the food that they eat, then we can use these two birds to ask ourselves a
reflective question. How are my middos or character-traits? Which bird am I,
what must I refine in my own life?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">G-d and people, but is it paradise found? It
is not long after leaving the ark that Noach plants a vineyard, becomes
intoxicated thereby uncovering his own nakedness and his son Cham, who the
Torah here tells us is the progenitor of Kena’ an, falls into depravity, while
his sons Shem and Yefes act righteously. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">How could this contrast happen so quickly
after their experience of the flood? I think the answer lies in the reality
that we are human.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We are created
with a dual nature: a Yetzer Hara and a Yetzer Tov or a good inclination and a
not good inclination. It is up to us, which direction we follow. There is
always struggle because we are human but following the ways of Shem and Yefes,
lead to the blessings of </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">G-d, while the ways of Cham lead to a life
absent of blessing. Parshas Noach does not end here it continues on with the
lineage of the three sons which leads to the story of the Tower of Bavel.</span></div>
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English word babble comes from. For me this is the final connection to Noach’s
name and the last juxtaposition in this parsha. (The parsha however concludes
with our introduction to Avraham Avinu / our father Abraham). Regardless of how
we get to Bavel, confusion is the opposite of rest and tranquility. The Torah also
called Torat Chayim (The Law of Life) teaches us how to choose life. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">If the choices we make lead us in the light
of Torah then we will find rest and tranquility for our soul on the other hand
if we walk in the darkness of the Yetzer Hara then our soul will not find rest
but the agitated state of confusion. May we always remember to make our choices
by following the Yetzer Tov, Hashem, and His Torah. Surely, this way of life
can be understood to function as an ark of safety in the promises of our merciful,
loving and covenant keeping G-d.</span></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-77753761324517891742015-10-08T22:47:00.003-04:002015-10-08T22:47:46.123-04:00Bereishis 5776, October 2015: Trusting in TorahWe all know Adam and Chava were quick to fall from obedience to G-d's word, but midrash tells us that from the beginning of the creation of the tangible, this was the reaction of the created.<br />
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On the first day, G-d created light and darkness in their entirety, as well as time in the linear sense (<b>Rashi</b>). On the second day the creations were the solidification of the Heavens into a stable firmament (<b>Bereishis Rabbah</b>), five groups of angels, and Gehinnom. None of these were distinct individual tangible objects except the angels, and those were inherently designed as tools essentially, to unquestioningly (unless asked) fulfill specific tasks.<br />
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On the third day, though, G-d created trees. The trees were intended to be entirely edible from roots to leaves, as well as their fruits. However, the earth feared that if they were too useful in this easy to access way (as opposed to chopping lumber which takes a great deal of work for man), they would be quickly over-used by man, and so the earth produced trees from which only the fruit was edible (<b>Bereishis Rabbah, Tankuni</b>). G-d punished the earth by making only some trees bear edible fruits whereas originally it had been intended that all trees would bear fruit along with edible bark, wood, and so on. While the earth had a concern, it tried to violate the law of Torah and contradict G-d's word.<br />
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On the fourth day, G-d created the sun, moon, stars, and zodiac and fixed them in the sky. The moon complained that it was improper for it and the sun to be identical in strength and appreciation; in response, G-d depleted the original light from the moon itself. When the moon showed contrition, G-d granted that the stars should shine alongside it alone, and not the sun regularly, so that the night sky should be appreciated as well as the day time sun-filled sky.<br />
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On the fifth day, fish and birds were created. Each took happily to its assigned portion, and so G-d blessed them with special unique blessings; ultimately when man was allowed to hunt and fish, this blessing also allowed them to survive in suitable numbers. None though tried to argue with the blueprint of creation.<br />
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Then came man, who rebelled against the rules of G-d, who had given him only one negative precept. The stage had already been set though by the rebellion of other creations which could not bend to the glory of Torah and the inherent perfection of G-d's plan.Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-5243838711804949622015-10-04T00:05:00.002-04:002015-10-04T00:39:39.889-04:00V'Zot haBerachah 5776, October 2015, InclusionDevarim 33:4<br />
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The Torah's last parsha, read on Simchat Torah (also Shemini Atzeret in Israel), is a blessing from Moshe Rabbeinu clearly directed to all of the family of Israel, every man, woman, and child. Everyone was included without exception. Whether they were the greatest tzaddikim, the least, the newborn, the zakein, they were included in Moshe's thoughts and prayers, and were part of his kehila. The Torah was commanded to US, every single one of us, by Moshe. It is an inheritance to the community of Yaakov, every single member of the community of Yaakov.<br />
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I am going to depart from my usual source-based discussion this week because this brings great pain to my own life. Today, our communities simply are not that inclusive to so many with disabilities, especially developmental, learning, or invisible disabilities, and it feels to me as though the Torah is telling us in wrapping up all its law that we must include <i>every</i> Jew, with joy and open hearts. Moshe Rabbeinu made no exceptions: we must provide a Jewish inclusive community for everyone, no matter what their ability or disability.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Getting her to her own bat mitzvah<br />
celebration was only a small step</td></tr>
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Let me first differentiate between accessibility and inclusion. Having wheelchair ramps, floor level bimahs, clear lines of sight, wide doorways, are all aspects of accessibility, allowing those with disabilities to enter the physical presence of the space they wish to access. They are critical, they require thought, they are not always obvious. But implementing accessibility is not <b>inclusion</b>.<br />
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I myself seen a young adult's family informed that they are not welcome at High Holiday services due to the disruption someone felt the youth caused to that other person's davenning (despite the fact that this same youth had been repeatedly asked to attend services to ensure a minyan would be present); a child with a speech impediment informed <i>on Yom Kippur</i> that a school bully had forbidden all other children from playing with that child at all; a small child's family assured that babysitters would take good care to ensure he didn't elope into danger only to have that occur within minutes; a young adult with intellectual and developmental disabilities publicly humiliated by being told that if he wouldn't lead davenning it must be because he had been "poorly educated." These are just a few incidents I personally have seen or know directly have occurred.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Every one of these four children has a serious medical, developmental,<br />
psychiatric, and/or intellectual disability. You wouldn't pick them out<br />
of a crowd of children as the ones with disabilities, yet they have them.</td></tr>
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Did you know that when people drum and pound on furniture during tefillah, it causes actual physical pain to some with sensory integration dysfunction or with synesthesia? That crowded spaces and children running out of control within those spaces can cause severe anxiety in those with many conditions (including intellectual, developmental, psychiatric, and medical disabilities) and can exacerbate necessary attempts to gain control of the environment for some? That there are those who chose not to dance on Simchas Torah for any variety of hidden disability related reasons varying from pain to poor coordination to dizziness and more? That boys with severe learning disabilities may simply not be able to leyn because they are already spending dozens of hours a week just trying to read in English the necessary material for school basics, but may be embarrassed to explain this?<br />
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Of course no one set of board members, rabbinic leaders, children's group leaders, or others can know the potential effect of every decision and every moment's actions for those with disabilities around them. That's impossible. What is necessary though is to remember to consider it, particularly if someone seems to have a negative response. The person not dancing, leaving the bais medrash when pounding on the bima begins, no longer attending synagogue at all; the child alone in the corner or running into every stationary object, these are not people rejecting the community. These are people abandoned or even rejected by the community if the community is not aware of the reasons for their behavior and the fact that the behavior is in fact caused by the community itself, for good or bad.<br />
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This may sound harsh, and it is. But the treatment I have seen those with disabilities receive from the Jewish community in the last few decades is itself terribly harsh. It is also not at all in keeping with the Torah, and particularly this parsha which is meant to bring the entire Torah into our hearts. All of our hearts. I wish everyone, everyone, a lively and joyful Shemini Atzeret and Simchat Torah.Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-53722329835300447152015-09-25T06:56:00.002-04:002015-09-25T06:56:51.632-04:00Haazinu 5776, September 2015; Gentleness and StrengthMoshe directed Heaven and Earth to be his witnesses as they are permanent and unchanging in their essence. Yes, clouds can pass across the sky, earthquakes can even alter the landscape, but the real nature of Heaven and Earth remain just as a person's inner essence does not change no matter whether his mood is good or not, and whether or not he does teshuvah for his sins he himself is still that one person (though he can be as if reborn if he does teshuvah). In the times of the Torah, the heavens were seen as a male influence on the world, and the very earth the female essence of creation. Together, mediated by G-d, they create our entire natural experience.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The rain in its time and the dew in its time and we will have<br />crops, arbah minim, schach, and all we need. And the little<br />children grow with the influence of their parents and other<br />male and female adults in their lives.</td></tr>
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Moreover, Moshe went on to state that his words would be "like a torrential rain which uproots…and causes great harm. <b>Tzror Hamor</b> reminds us that storms help crops grow stronger. Rain itself likewise was considered essentially male; it could benefit but it could destroy subsistence falling at the wrong strength or the wrong time. Mostly though it was life giving, just as is the Torah. Both are essential for the world, both come from Heaven, both cleanse and purify, both develop seeds (the Torah metaphorically developing the seeds of spirituality within one's heart) (<b>Rashi</b>).<br />
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Yet Moshe then went on to say, "My saying shall trickle like dew." Dew seems almost to spring from the ground and is historically thought of as feminine, gentle. Dew is never a negative agriculturally for the crops of Eretz Yisroel. It never interferes, it is never dangerous to man. In the same way that everyone in Eretz Yisroel rejoiced uniformly at dew, so Torah is always a cause for rejoicing (<b>Sifrei</b>).<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">This photo doesn't begin to show how steep<br />the path truly was, somehow it shows it more<br />leveled out than in reality. It would have been<br />terribly dangerous to descend in heavy rain.</td></tr>
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I was recently hiking and was on very steep trails. I feared the coming rain greatly, for there would have been no safe way to get down the path at all. It would have been a complete flood immediately if real rain began to fall. Such is the power of rain on our minds, to control our actions. But we must change our actions to follow the Torah, and sometimes a strong reminder is necessary. Keeping this metaphor fresh in our minds can help.<br />
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<br />Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-64304302235064392302015-09-18T11:06:00.000-04:002015-09-18T11:06:53.873-04:00 Parshas Vayeilech -- All Together Now 9/18/15<style>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Parshsas Vayeilech</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Dt. 31:1-30</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">This week’s parsha is closely related to last week’s Parshas Nitzavim
and they are read either together on or during Rosh Hashanah. In the Chayenu publication
there is an insightful thought concerning the two parshios, they note that
“parshat Nitzavim focuses on G-d’s side of the covenant, while parshat Vayeilech
focuses on the Jewish people’s side of the covenant.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Let’s begin this week’s d’var Torah by
revisiting the opening line from Parshas Nitzavim: </span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">“You, all [together], are standing today
before the Eternal, your God:”</span></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">What I like about this line is that it reminds us that we are
all in this together! So with that in mind let’s move into this week’s parsha.</span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">“Moshe then went and spoke these words to all Yisrael.
He said to them,’” Today I am one hundred and twenty years old. I may no longer
go out or enter, [for] the Eternal has said to me, ‘You will not cross over
this Yarden.’” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">I cannot imagine what hearing those words must have felt like
to B’nai Yisroeal, who as fledgling nation are about to cross over into the
Promised Land, but now they hear that they will do so without their beloved
leader, Moshe Rabbeinu. Yet Hashem, who has never left any generation, bereft
of a Shepherd, has the entire nation as witnesses to the installation of
Yehoshua. What follows next is the first of three repetitions of strong
encouragement that gets right at what any of us might have felt in that moment.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">First to the people and then twice to Yehoshua, Moshe says,
“Be strong and be firm”, some translations say courageous instead of firm, but
the message then and now is we must, as a united people, stand strong and with
courage, and might I also suggest pride in our Yiddishikeit. All we have to do
is look around our world to see just how important it is that this reality has
a home in our heart and mind. But if and when we falter, we have the very next
verse to comfort and strengthen us, </span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">“But it is the Eternal who is leading before; He will
be with, [and] will not let you slip [from His grasp] nor forsake you.” v.8</span></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">When we place our eyes on the Creator King of the universe
going before us into all matters of life, it truly helps during our times of distress
to know who has the lead that we can safely follow. Once this part of the
message has been established, the parsha turns to a small but powerful act.
Moshe writes down the Torah on 13 scrolls and places them in the Ark of the
Covenant, which also contains the Tablets. There are many places you can go to
deepen your own spiritual understanding of this segment including Chabad.org,
but as I have pondered verse 9 in relation to my theme for this blog, I cannot
help but think of the Tablets as the Divine Holy Writ that is Hashem’s part of
the covenant and the scrolls, which are written by a human hand with ink, are
our part. The thing about ink is that it can fade and I feel as if it’s up to
us, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">“we together who are standing here
today”, </i>to strive to make sure that this never happens through ahavas Hashem
and ahavas Yisroel. And again our beautiful, holy G-d makes what can seem like
a daunting task easier, by placing them both in the Holy of Holies where they
meet eternally. I can think of no mightier safe.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Parshas Vayeilech is rich, deep and broad and a blog cannot
contain all its riches, so it is my responsibility to pick what to write about
and what to leave out. But how can we not talk about the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Hakhel</i> year that follows the Shemittah, when we are now in one?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our parsha continues
with an explanation of this seventh year commandment to come together as one
nation before our king and hear him read aloud portions of Devarim/Deuteronomy.
But we don’t have a king and we aren’t exactly in our “promised land” are we…?
So how might we apply this to our lives today? In his book entitled, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Daily Wisdom,</i> The Lubavitcher Rebbe, OBM
writes, “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The objective of this assembly
[Hakhel] was to strengthen the foundations of Jewish education and observance.”
</i>So get together with friends and family, in small gatherings or large, even
on FB and encourage one and other with Torah values, ahavas Yisroel and the
activity of Mitzvot. We can and must do this for one and other. Sukkot is
coming, the parsha tells us that this was the time during the Hakhel to hear
the king; Sukkot is coming and we have a wonderful time to share our King’s
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wish we could explore how a song, the earth and the heavens are witnesses to
the covenant between Hashem and His people; perhaps another time. For now, as
we move through the Days of Awe, and come to Yom Kippur, where we will once
again stand together and with one voice confess the Al Chet for Am Echad, I
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-51503828743615375042015-09-11T12:46:00.001-04:002015-09-11T12:49:51.539-04:00Nitzavim, September 11, 2015 - Where do we find the mitzvot?<i>*Author's Note - I am not very skilled at condensing research into my own words. Instead I try to use readings and study by our Sages to inform my opinions, outlook, and perceptions. In this post I am merely sharing my interpretations and opinions of this week's Parshah. So, just keep in mind, this is my opinion only. :)<br />A big thank you to Elise for allowing me to share my thoughts (and be a bit vulnerable) with all of you!!</i><br />
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.666666666666666px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">G-d? Who am I to question my abilities in this stressful time? So if you will allow me, I would like to delve further into this specific part of the Parshah. </span></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-10631586919926146022015-09-04T08:21:00.001-04:002015-09-04T08:21:23.781-04:00Ki Tavo 5775, September 2015, Using our GiftsThis week's parsha is best known for the blessings and curses section, yet before that we learn about the mitzvah of bringing bikkurim, first fruits, to the Beis Hamikdash. What is so special that we should learn this so prominently, and what is the point of bringing single items in groups to Jerusalem with such ceremony?<br />
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The mitzvah itself is to mark the first growth of any of the special species of the land of Israel on land we own each year (those being barley, wheat, grapes, dates, pomegranates, figs, and olives); and then to to bring those specific grown products in a basket to the holy Temple together with the rest of one's settlement area all traveling together in procession. Important people of the city of Jerusalem would come greet them as they approached, and then all the residents whom they passed would stand as they approached them personally.<br />
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It says in <b>Mishlei</b>, "Honor G-d from your wealth and from the first of all your harvest; then your barns will be filled with plenty, and your winepresses will burst with wine." It is our trust in G-d which allows us to receive what we do. Not that one receives in this world directly in proportion to his honoring of G-d, but only through honoring G-d at all does the entire world receive any portion.<br />
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One must not think that by giving, his own possessions are diminished, for it is G-d and not we ourselves who determine our own portion. Again in <b>Mishlei</b> it states, "There is he who scatters, and yet increases more."<br />
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Only in mitzvahs of giving is one allowed to test G-d, in fact, not in mitzvahs of accumulating or receiving. For it says in <b>Malachi</b>, "Test Me with this. Give tithes and charity and see if I will make you wealthy."<br />
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As B'nai Yisroel are called "the first of G-d's harvest," in <b>Yirmeyahu</b>; and <b>Toldos Yitchak</b> writes that so we are commanded and taught to bring our first fruits in both literal and figurative senses. This means that the mitzvah is valid even today. The chachamim explain this means that anything one has as a gift in character or ability is his gift from G-d and should be treated as bikkurim. This can be material wealth, in which case one has the responsibility to do good to others as the physical representation of G-d's works on Earth in this era without a Beis Hamikdash. One who has no real material wealth though may have other gifts--a beautiful voice, a wise mind, an ability to write coherently, an knack for teaching others, artistic skills, anything. One is thus commanded to use these skills not for personal aggrandizement, but for the honor of G-d, to make one's fear and love of G-d known and publicly shown. This is a mitzvah every single person can do, for we all have gifts even if the gift is not so obvious like a loving heart which makes others feel drawn in; or a quiet nature which allows others to notice the holiness about them in the world. It's important we each keep in mind consciously what our gifts are, that they are G-d given, that they are part of us, and that we can use them in G-d's honor to perform a mitzvah otherwise inaccessible.Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-43811190156839272562015-08-27T12:25:00.001-04:002015-08-27T12:25:42.546-04:00Ki Saitzai 5775, August 2015, Wisdom is the Mother of all Good"Tova chochma mi'gevurah," wisdom is greater than strength (<b>Koheles</b>).<br />
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In this week's parsha, we learn the mitzvah of sending off a mother bird before gathering her eggs or fledgelings (this is in the case of a kosher wild bird, please understand). Why do we bother, other than obviously to avoid getting pecked or scratched? Why would this be a distinct commandment in itself?<br />
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<b>Rambam</b> says this mitzvah is particularly great; <b>Kli Yakar</b> expands that this mitzvah is equivalent to that of the ten commandments to honor your father and mother. This is our clue of how to understand the mitzvah: G-d is H-mself the mother of all things. G-d gave birth to the universe and to every living being. How can we not honor H-m directly by honoring all mothers directly when we have that opportunity?<br />
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Historically, chochma, wisdom, was viewed as the feminine divinity aspect of Ha Kodesh B-ruch Hu. It was in keeping with the early Jewish thought process to view wisdom as equivalent in every way as any masculine idea of "G-d." This was essentially altered after the first dispersion to Babylon, as the Jews encountered there excesses of goddess worship and the leadership among the Jews, both civil and religious, feared that this had tainted Jewish thinking. Therefore G-d was re-conceived (ironically) as purely a father figure in Jewish thought. This in no way though removes the original feminine from reality as G-d clearly is not gendered but rather gender is our own dichotomous distinction.<br />
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If one uses strength to gather the eggs, one could risk injuring the mother bird herself as well as the egg gatherer risking injury. If one uses wisdom, and sends away the mother bird, one shows a great respect to Ha Kadosh B-ruch Hu and shows an ability to synthesize all Jewish thought.<br />
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Wisdom likewise comes into play in many areas of halacha in this parsha: how to handle the situation of a non-Jewish woman captured in war and desired by a Jew; not to deprive an oldest son of his inheritance; to bury the dead immediately; to help a Jew load or unload a burden; to fence a roof. These are all areas best approached using wisdom rather than strength (though strength can certainly help load or unload a pack).<br />
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<b>Zohar</b> explains the mitzvah thus:<br />
<i>Driven from its nest, the mother bird flies restlessly over the hills and valleys. It cries bitterly and despairingly over the separation from its children.</i><br />
<i> The angel appointed over that species of bird appears before the Heavenly Throne and reproaches G-d, "Why have you, compassionate in all your ways, ordered this in your Torah?"</i><br />
<i> The angels appointed over all other species of birds take up the cry…</i><br />
<i> Then G-d turns to all the angels and tells them, "…why …do none of you voice concern about my sons and the Shechina, both of whom are in exile? The Shechina is separated from its nest, the Beis Hamikdash in Jerusalem, and My sons the fledgelings dwell among the nations…"</i><br />
<i> This plaintive cry evokes Heavenly mercy for the fate of the Jewish people.</i>Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-80128481828901278282015-07-10T12:18:00.001-04:002015-07-10T12:18:34.624-04:00Pinchas 5775, Learning from all at all timesThe five daughters of Tzelofchad were such great women that they discussed all matters among themselves in the framework of Torah law, agreed on everything, and lived their lives solely for the purpose of Torah. They went to Moshe Rabbeinu to discuss their family's inheritance in Eretz Yisroel and presented their argument in the fashion of the greatest Torah scholars (<b>Bava Basra</b>). They compared the laws of inheritance with the laws of yibum (<b>Sifrei</b>), and would not accept Moshe's initial arguments (the proper law having been concealed by G-d from Moshe) (<b>Sanhedrin</b>) not out of self-importance but out of devotion to true Torah and halacha.<br />
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Ultimately not only did G-d declare their learning and interpretation of halacha correct over that of Moshe himself, but they all found worthy husbands and bore children even though they were all over the age of 40 at the time of the disputation. <b>Bamidbar Rabbah</b> teaches that this was an extra instruction for Moshe himself not to be haughty or feel special that he had separated himself from his wife at G-d's command, for all five of these sisters had separated themselves from the likelihood of marrying and bearing children out of love of halacha without any direct instruction to do so.<br />
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No matter how well we feel we know something, no matter how special or learned or expert we may be considered by others around us, we must always be open to others' words and ideas. What would have happened had Moshe not accepted that he should put the sisters' question before G-d, if he had incorrectly decided halacha for the people this one time? If the sisters had not been willing to speak up, or the various judges not been willing to listen and defer to those above themselves?<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">and Torah is passed from mother to daughter. But Torah can<br />only be passed from one to another in an atmosphere of love<br />and respect, and the respect must go both ways; the child shows<br />kavod to the parent and the parent shows an appreciation of<br />the child's willingness to learn and consider what is taught.</td></tr>
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Halacha and every other area of life can never be decided by those who are convinced they know everything, or who will not listen to others who approach in respect and serious interest in true knowledge. We ourselves must always be open to the words and ideas of others. To belittle others, to refuse to consider their words and thoughts, to hold ourselves above reproach in any area of learning or expertise is to commit an aveira with untold consequences. Let us all learn from everyone around us and always be willing to reconsider our beliefs and opinions within the framework of Torah.<br />
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<br />Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-88158163863027934082015-07-03T08:19:00.002-04:002015-07-03T08:19:59.198-04:00Balak 5775, July 2015, The protective feminineBalak, says the midrash in <b>Bamidbar Rabbah</b> and the <b>Zohar</b>, was himself one of the greatest magicians with power over forces of tumah of his time. Yet he contracted with Bilam to help him destroy the Jewish people. Why? Because he knew he had no power over them himself due to what had happened to his own creation. His special form of magic involved the animation of an artificial bird with magic powers through tumah. When Balak had resolved to destroy the Jews, his bird flew away just as he was offering incense to it, and after a long disappearance it reappeared with a singed tail--which told Balak that the Shechinah specifically would always thwart him in attacking the Jews (<b>Zohar</b>). Not G-d in general, not the Clouds of Glory which physically protected the Jews at the time, but specifically the Shechinah.<br />
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Why the Shechinah? There are two aspects to consider. First, along with Chochmah, the Shechinah represents the feminine aspect of G-d (as we understand it; obviously G-d transcends gender but we understand things in concrete ways). This is alluded to in the brachah Bilam inadvertently gives the Jews, "Mah tovu," "How good are your tents," which we are taught actually refers not to a metaphor (unless you go to the Kabbalah, but that's another discussion of course) but to the actual physical tents of the Jews in their camps in the deserts, for the women's inherent modesty made them always site their tents so that no entrance or opening faced directly to those of another tent; in this way they always had privacy and provided it to their neighbors. This true modesty is one of the greatest traits of the Jews, and das Yehudis has always been a closely guarded value.<br />
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In addition the Shechinah itself was found in the Mishkan itself, inhabiting the Kodesh Kodeshim. The karbanos, tefillos, and study of the Jews was their very protection as the Shechinah kept them from harm.<br />
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In the end, it was indeed mostly men who sinned following Balak and Bilam's campaign, but the women and their holiness were able to protect the people as a whole and it was their feminine nature, their holiness, their prayers, which kept G-d from destroying the people entirely.<br />
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We must continue today in this vein; remembering our natural modesty (without going overboard or being judgmental of others' standards of modesty) in our dress, behavior, demeanor, and thought. Yet that alone is not enough; we all must continue our tefillos and talmud Torah as well as the other mitzvahs we can perform to bring about protection for the Jewish people as a whole.<br />
<br />Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-41250998697878355752015-06-19T08:56:00.001-04:002015-06-19T08:56:03.645-04:00Korach 5775, June 2015; Limits and AchievementsThere's a well known old joke about a man who goes to a rabbi and demands, "Rabbi, I'll donate $1,000,000 to your synagogue if you'll make me a Kohen." The rabbi explains he can't do that. They argue back and forth. Finally the rabbi asks, in frustration, "Look, sir, why is it so important to you out of everything that I could do to teach you about your Jewish heritage that I make you a Kohen, anyway?" The man replies, "Well, my father was a Kohen, his father was a Kohen…"<br />
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It's actually a historically derivative joke. We're told that a non-Jew came to Shammai, requested that he be made a Jew, and demanded that he also be made Kohen Gadol. Shammai chased him off. The man went to Hillel and he accepted him as a student. Shammai went to Hillel and asked how he could possibly accept the man with the conditions he set, and Hillel explained that the man would begin at the very beginning of learning Torah, and as he went on he would develop understanding that G-d has set the conditions of the world and that one who is a convert simply cannot be Kohen Gadol by the nature of things.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">They're all in the same group, within a couple of years of<br />each others' ages. But the smallest just can't reach what the<br />tallest can sometimes, and she's not going to win a race<br />against her. That's simple reality. They're still all great friends.</td></tr>
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In this week's parsha, Korach, a great, wealthy, powerful, imposing leader among the Jewish people, demands to be made a Kohen rather than a Levi as his birth properly provided. No argument could deflect his compulsion to be other than what he was. Moshe spoke to him gently, reminding him that just as G-d had made night and day and they were separate and not equivalent or interchangeable, so the various positions of people by birth within the Jewish nation are each necessary, valuable, but not alterable (<b>Bamidbar Rabbah, Rashi</b>).<br />
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There were many possible good, holy reasons for the desire to be a Kohen: the opportunity to offer korbanos directly to G-d, to perform holy service, to lead the Jewish people. However, unlike among the other nations in which there were many temples and anyone could become servants or priests within those temples, G-d had directly designated the Kohanim as his priests and the Leviyim as their servants (<b>Bamidbar Rabbah</b>).<br />
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We do all have limitations. Some of us are only ever going to be so intelligent, intellectual, wealthy, handsome. We may never have the opportunity for the learning we want. We may not be the person we wish we were.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">He has significant disabilities. But he can cook<br />great steak for dinner and hopes to become a<br />world famous chef someday with his own restaurant.<br />He accepts he has certain limitations but still has<br />plans to accomplish all that's within his possibilities.</td></tr>
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Yet there are some things we can change, and some we just cannot. When things are truly beyond our ability to alter, to affect, we must accept them and remember that everything G-d does is for the best. If we have a disability of any kind and it keeps us from performing duties or embracing opportunities we otherwise might have had open to us, there is a reason and it is not a reason we can alter intellectually or through our own devices. At the same time, we are required to do everything we can within our own abilities to perform mitzvahs, to achieve tikkun olam, to bring peace to the world. We must be all we can be, yet reconcile ourselves to being only that tiny sliver of creation which we are within G-d's complete creation. It's a very hard concept to intellectualize and to get right yet it is the key to learning who we really are and what our job in the world might be.Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-2714338108974512382015-06-12T09:36:00.002-04:002015-06-12T09:36:52.721-04:00Parshas Shelach Lecha 5775, June 2015; Finding Self Transformation<span style="font-family: inherit;">This parsha as we all know begins with the story of the Jews sending spies into the land of Canaan in preparation for invasion. G-d did not suggest nor command this, Moshe Rabbeinu did not; rather the people petitioned Moshe to request of G-d to permit them to do this (<b>Yalkut Shmonei)</b>. They made excuses as to why it would be beneficial. It was obviously unnecessary as they had G-d's protection and Cloud of Glory proceeding them throughout their travels. They even tried to justify their zeal to find fault in the land by twisting halachah, claiming they needed to be able to destroy all idols, as if that wouldn't be possible if twelve men didn't try to spy out all the land, as if twelve men would locate every single idol everywhere in the region (<b>Midrash haGadol</b>).</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">We all have our own biases, difficulties, tendencies to justify our own actions. Yet this week's parsha also teaches that we are responsible not only for our own actions but for our very thoughts. It is stated in this parsha that it is forbidden to associate with one who scorns G-d's word; and also that even thoughts about immorality are forbidden. To the extent that we are at all in control of our environment and our mind, we must keep them moral and productive at all times, consistent with growing in Torah.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I will digress here into a story of self-transformation in my ten year old Gilad. He seems to be very mildly in the grouping of a developmental condition his oldest sister and oldest brother have. No geneticist ever put a name to it, just said they seem to have features of various things and have varying combinations of congenital brain damage, mental illness, developmental and/or intellectual disability, sensory dysfunction, non-verbal learning disorder<span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline;">. Gilad also has a severe speech impediment; several teachers (not Israeli ones but American ones!) have had such a hard time understanding him in class that his friends appoint a "translator" to tell the teachers what he's saying. He's been having speech therapy weekly for years, naturally.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #141823; line-height: 19px;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">But he's also very, very shy and socially awkward. He would much rather curl up by himself and be left alone than interact with others (sound familiar?). Since he was two teachers have been recommending as many play dates as possible.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">The last few years at the community swimming pool he refused to even go if his older brother Sachy didn't come to play with him, and then he interacted only with Sachy.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">This year his little sister Adele who is very social and interactive decided to join the beginning diving team and Gilad decided he'd join too. Within two weeks, this child who wouldn't jump into deep water unless I was there nearby is throwing himself into the deep end. He's diving forwards and backwards off the diving board, which he'd never even approach before 3 weeks ago. But not only that--he's going to the pool 2 hours before practice, finding other kids his age, older, and younger to play with, and only coming back to me for snacks briefly before running off to play again, even if his sister is with other children. Last year he just tagged along after her. I have never, ever seen such a blossoming in such a short term.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">My point in telling this story is that it is our choice at every moment to rally for Torah and personal development or to retreat. A child like Gilad has only limited understanding and ability, both in developmental and Torah expectations (he's still several years before bar mitzvah). Yet in taking a positive risk he found a tool which has changed his life. At every moment we have these opportunities available to us if we only seek them out. We can choose to join the rabble, defame the holy land, and spend 40 years in the desert; or we can choose the opportunities G-d puts in our lives for self-transformation and come closer to H-m by changing ourselves and learning from what G-d has created all around us as a gift. The holiness of the land is the holiness of every Jew coming closer to Torah, learning how to be part of the holy kehillah of B'nai Yisroel, and learning how to approach new challenges in our lives, as everything G-d does is for the best.</span></div>
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Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-24156247856713226722015-06-05T09:56:00.000-04:002015-06-05T10:05:14.120-04:00Behaaloscha 5775, June 2015; Hindsight and ForethoughtThis is such a beautiful parsha. We have the kindling of the menora bringing physical light into the Mishkan to remind the B'nai Yisroel allowing Aharon and all of the Jews to be elevated spiritually (<b>Bamidbar Rabbah</b>). We learn of the great love of the Jews for the chagim such that they request an opportunity to celebrate Pesach Sheini for those who might not have been able to participate in the mitzvahs of Pesach at the proper time but who long for the chance to fulfill G-d's word. The greatness of the generations of the desert, the holiness of Moshe's trumpets, Moshe's great tefillos, even what many consider an entire separate book of the Torah (<b>Rokeach, Shabbos Katan</b>).<br />
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Yet many approach this week's parsha with a feeling of dread, not elevation. We see not the glories and beauties, but the horrors; the demand for meat, the rushing away from Har Sinai (<b>Ramban, Shabbos Katan</b>), and moreover the upcoming parshiyos recording the incidents of the Spies and the rebellion led by Korach, which have their roots in the complaints of the Airev Rav and the elevation of the Leviyim. Had not the nation believed the spies, they would not have had to remain in the desert for 40 years (<b>Tosefai HaRosh, Yevamos, Mefarshim, Rokeach l'fi Rashi</b>). Had Korach not looked for every opportunity to take offense at Aharon and Moshe's doings, the great rift and horrors of his rebellion and the following attacks by other nations would not have occurred.<br />
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This is a reminder that we must both look ahead and do our best to see only the good in all things and remove as many stumbling blocks as we can to prevent others from seeing things negatively. While this may seem a ridiculous burden, it can come back to benefit us ourselves in the end. At the same time, while it is patently forbidden to try to analyze why G-d might have caused certain things to occur in our lives (and certainly we shouldn't see things as punishments as everything G-d does is for the best, even though lacking Divine wisdom and complete comprehension we have no way of seeing how many things might be for our own benefit), we can look back and try to find the root causes of things which don't turn out as we wish. Over time, this can help teach and remind us that everything we do has consequences, and sometimes they are not ones we expected nor ones we would have wanted to happen.<br />
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Moshe and Aharon elevated each Levi according to G-d's command. They shaved them, anointed them, and waved them exactly as they were told. Korach behaved as he did due to his own failings and evil. The good which came from the event (the initiation of the Leviyim for all time) far outweighed the evil which followed (Korach's rebellion). Yet still we see that even from great good sometimes comes true bad, and we must learn to separate ourselves from it and even try to avoid it or prevent it if we can. Certainly in our every day doings, when we don't have direct instructions from G-d as did Moshe and Aharon, we must examine our actions thinking forward and backward, and doing all we can to ensure no harm comes from our choices.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My beautiful nephew Logan. He passed<br />
away last week, at the age of two, <br />
through no fault of anyone.<br />
No one could have prevented his death, no<br />
one is responsible. Yet how could we have<br />
looked forward and seen this to come? <br />
Looking backward we see only all the love<br />
everyone felt for him at all times.</td></tr>
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<br />Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-16203182193589820792015-05-14T09:05:00.000-04:002015-05-14T09:05:04.538-04:00Behar-Bechukosai 5775, May 2015, The Giving Women<div style="text-align: center;">
<span style="font-size: x-small;">Ten matters were created, each stronger than the previous.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Rock is strong, but iron breaks it; </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Iron is strong, but fire melts it;</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Fire is strong, but water extinguishes it;</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Water is strong, but clouds carry it;</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Clouds are strong, but winds blow them away;</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Wind is strong, but the body can hold air; </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">The body is strong, but fear breaks it;</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Death, though, is mightier than all of these.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Tzedaka is more powerful even than that; it rescues from death. (<b>Bava Basra</b>)</span></div>
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Through giving to others even the rich can be saved from punishment when they have committed sins nothing else will ameliorate (Vayikra Rabbah). <b>Tiferet Tzion</b> tells us that the giver receives far more in heavenly reward than he gives in monetary value.<br />
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But of course it is not only money that constitutes tzedaka. While men are often known as big "machers," financial donors or benefactors, we all know that it takes more than cash (not that cash isn't nice) to support a person. Time, energy, kindness, assistance, support, all of these can be given to a person who needs them.<br />
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In fact, the very parable given of "tzedaka," in <b>Midrash Tanchuma</b> and elsewhere, is that of a donkey overloaded, such that a single person is needed to adjust its load whereas if the donkey is loaded up still more and pushed to walk farther with the overly heavy baggage, it will collapse and a great number of people would still be inadequate to assist it then. This isn't a matter of throwing money at a problem; it is a a matter of assisting in exactly the way that assistance is needed. And we all know well that it is women in our popular consciousness, and not men, who are noted for their ability to support each other, discover the nature of each others' burdens, shift them, remove them, readjust them, and otherwise lighten the load so that the other person can continue their journey to their own destination.<br />
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It is wonderful to give tzedaka in the strictly financial sense. But however much we each can do that, we are still also obligated to do more; to give of ourselves, to give our very selves, in the way we can. Of course each person has a unique "fund" of personal spiritual-emotional wealth available, some more and some less.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Frequently we give of ourselves in the very sense of<br />physically enabling the needs of others.</td></tr>
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This is the glory of the woman. The giving of herself. Yet never forget that as they say, charity begins at home. Never forget to give to yourself too. Your energy, time, effort, and care must first go to sustaining your own emotional and spiritual needs.Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-41127772826688114232015-05-07T18:16:00.001-04:002015-05-07T18:16:18.340-04:00Emor 5775, May 2015; For You Yourself<div style="text-align: center;">
"The sin of desecrating G-d's honor is so severe that even teshuva cannot fully atone for it." </div>
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(<b>Yoma</b> caf-vav)</div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Learn about yourself;<br /> you never know what your <br />strengths might turn out to be!</td></tr>
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We learn in this week's parsha the idea of desecration of G-d's name. Of course this is only a term for an action as performed by human; G-d's name itself can inherently only be holy. But while we usually have in mind that "<i>hillul Hash-m</i>" consists only of public action not becoming of us, that's not so in Torah. One's expected standards behavior depend on her own status within the community and moreover are dependent on her own expectations for herself! (<b>Chinuch Shiur, Mesillas Yesharim</b>) R' Yochanan explained that for himself, being seen in public not wearing tefillin, or spending any time at all not studying Torah would be<i> hillul Hash-m</i> as it would not be up to the standards the community and he himself expected. (Yoma)<br />
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This may seem a burden, but it is also a challenge in a positive sense. How do we each behave in our own eyes? Are we proud of our actions, our <i>kiddush Hash-m</i> in the sense of being who we were meant to be? It is a positive mitzvah to sanctify G-d's name! Not only by sacrificing our lives under horrible circumstances, but by living the lives we are given in the best way possible and by being ourselves, openly, comfortably, as G-d made us.<br />
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<b>Rambam</b> in <b>Yesodei HaTorah</b> teaches there are two aspects of <i>kiddush Hash-m</i> we can always do: to avoid transgressing halachah at any time, and to conduct ourselves as becomes a dignified Jew. But the Gemara goes farther as elucidated above; it is a <i>kiddush Hash-m</i> to treat oneself with respect, to appreciate oneself, to be true to oneself. Do something for yourself and remind yourself you are performing a mitzvah!Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-81983026362306490412015-05-01T13:42:00.001-04:002015-05-01T13:42:17.552-04:00Acharei Mos/Kedoshim 5775, May 2015, MoralityIn parshas Acharei Mos, we are forbidden certain relationships. Deriving from this, the Acharonim developed our laws of <i>yichud</i>, regulating private seclusion of men and women who are forbidden to have personal relationships. <b>Zecharya</b> discusses the age of the coming of Moshiach, when according to <b>Rashi'</b>s interpretation, families will mourn individually and men and their wives separately. Even on solemn occasions, even when the yetzer hara may have little hold, the halachos still apply (<b>Michtav Me'Eliyahu</b>). Clearly, the laws against immorality are therefore not just for the sake of preventing immediate prohibited relations.<br />
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The Gemara in <b>Gittin</b> explains, rather that by removing oneself from the possibility of immorality, one becomes closely associated with HaKadosh Bar-ch Hu. One who avoids an opportunity for yichud or obscenity but prevented himself from taking advantage of it is he about whom it says in <b>Yeshayahu</b>, "One who shuts his watching evil…shall behold the King in His beauty,…the land that is far off."<br />
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<b>Vayikra Rabba</b> says furthermore that he will behold the shechina, and happiness in Olam Haba.<br />
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Parshas Kedoshim continues with related ideas of avoiding paying any attention to idolatry, cults, or philosophies contrary to Torah; false oaths; thefts; and misleading the vulnerable.<br />
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When we have questions about how we need to separate men from women, community from greater community, we have no need to make new restrictions, create new barriers, and certainly not to do it based on non-Jewish thought patterns and philosophies at the risk of pain to other Jews; or worse yet to mislead other Jews about what separations are necessary. Halacha directly from Torah observed for generations upon generations, clearly discussed in both written Torah and Gemara tells us exactly how we interact with each other and how we maintain proper separation. To do more and insist it is Torah is to lead others astray; to do less is unworthy of a Jew.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">True confession: I didn't have a good photo illustration. So I give you<br />a cute sheep this morning as it was finishing its being shorn and beautified<br />before judging at the Maryland Sheep and Wool Festival. Just sheep, no goats, sorry!</td></tr>
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<br />Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-50955079852151797152015-04-22T08:16:00.002-04:002015-04-22T08:16:15.380-04:00Tazria/Metzora 5775, April 2015; ExclusionSpecial rules of isolation were placed by the Torah on one who was found to have tzaraas. According to the <b>Sforno</b> and others, specifically, he would be expelled from all the camps including that of B'nai Yisroel, residing outside them all; in the time of the settlement of Eretz Yisroel, he was excluded from any walled city. He had a number of laws individually isolating him as well, involving whom he could live with in his banishment (only with others suffering tzaraas, not with those banished for other reasons); allowing his hair to grow and covering his face and lips; and even verbally warning anyone who approached him.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">At Special Olympics games, where everyone is included.</td></tr>
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Of course we don't have anything like tzaraas now. Yet we as communities choose to act as if we do by excluding individual people based on non-halachically supported prejudices. We judge that those people perform specific aveiros which we distain (yet we welcome others who we know regularly perform other halachically prohibited actions) and tell them they are not welcome in our synagogues. We insult or exclude those whose disabilities make them more difficult to welcome, even if they are the very ones who most need our inclusion. We ignore the family whose hashgafa seems different from our own or actively discourage their participation in our community activities. We almost seem to look for opportunities to exclude rather than to enrich our own lives and circles by including others.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Special Olympics Track and Field relay team.</td></tr>
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The Torah halachos are quite clear. If a Kohen declared tzaraas, there was no second opinion of his view. But barring the declaration by a Kohen that tzaraas was present, it was not. There was no exclusion, no tearing down of homes, no destruction of property, no negative association at all. We must bear in mind that at all times, we must be inclusive, welcoming, encouraging, for those we are excluding belong in the holiest of places and not outside our walls.Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-58276978868866518842015-04-16T09:47:00.004-04:002015-04-16T09:47:41.758-04:00Shemini 5775, April 2015, Mourning<i>1.By the rivers of Babylon, there, at last, we sat down, and we also wept, when we remembered Zion.</i><br />
<i>2.Upon the willows in its midst we hung up our harps,</i><br />
<i>3.For there our captos asked of us words of song and those who had shattered us, mirth: "Sing us one of the songs of Zion."</i><br />
<i>4.What? Shall we sing the song of the L-rd on the soil of the alien?</i><br />
… (Tehillim 137, 1-4, trans. Hirsch)<br />
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Today we observe Yom HaShoah, the day of remembrance of the holocaust, as we prepare for Shabbos in a few days, to read the portion of Shemini. How can we combine our unspeakable pain and loss with the joy of Shabbos, the elevation of the omer we are daily counting in anticipation of celebration, and even just with day to day life and its joys and sorrows?<br />
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In this parsha, two of the sons of Aharon haKohen die after entering the Holy of Holies. The story of their death is a very complex one which I am not nearly adequately educated to discuss (I have struggled with the Rashi for decades and still can't wrap my thoughts around it completely and consistently). But the aftermath of their deaths is also discussed here in the Torah. Aharon and his two surviving sons are continuing to prepare and offer the decreed sacrifices of the day, and of the dedication of the Mishkan. And the language of the Torah is beautiful and yet terrible. Moshe inquires "darosh darash Moshe," he inquires inquisitively, diligently, as to what has become of the sin offering, the goat offered as a mussaf Rosh Chodesh. He discovers that Aharon and his two remaining sons have not eaten the appropriate portion but have burnt it completely, and Moshe expresses anger at Elazar and Itamar.<br />
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The two young men remain silent. Their father Aharon, known for being a peace-maker, responds on their behalf directly to Moshe, "…behold, this day they have offered their chattas and olah offerings before the L-rd, and things such as these have befallen me that if I had eaten the chattas today, would it have been well-pleasing in the sight of the L-rd?" <b>Yalkut Shmonei</b> and <b>Vayikra Rabbah</b> explain that Aharon differentiated between their status as mourners relative to daily and regular offerings, and their status relative to the Inauguration offerings, those commanded just for the dedication of the new Mishkan. Relative to every day things, they must function as kohanim and not show mourning. Relative to something uniquely special for all of B'nai Yisroel, the inauguration of the Mishkan marking a physical reminder of the relationship between G-d and man, the three men could not possibly help but show some sign of mourning, some reticence, some inner pain at their own losses. They were tzaddikim, but they were human men. Moshe realizes that this is indeed the proper halachah, and that his anger blinded him to it momentarily, they are all reconciled, and Moshe is given special orders from G-d to directly instruct Elazar and Itamar in the dietary laws he next elaborates for all of the Jewish people (<b>Vayikra Rabbah, Tiferet Zion)</b>.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My grandparents Otto and Ilse Gutmann at their home in Riverdale, NY,<br />with their first 9 grandchildren (more were subsequently born) c. 1980. They<br />escaped Germany to come the US in the 1940's and worked to rebuild a Jewish people.</td></tr>
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We cannot help but feel pain, sometimes extreme emotional pain, loss, for we are human, even if we are tzaddikim. We sometimes remain silent, we sometimes answer back, we sometimes must fight back, even act preemptively. But we cannot do it in anger. We make our decisions based on Torah teachings, and on what is necessary for our survival and protection of each other. We neither forget nor ignore. We turn to G-d and ask for help and for His return to his home among us.Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729413643549321817.post-13472549826099442422015-03-27T10:22:00.000-04:002015-03-27T10:22:07.218-04:00Tzav 5775, March 2015; All Mankind and KarbanosTwice daily, the High Priest himself was to offer a sacrifice known as the Minchas Chavitin. This was a true mincha-type sacrifice of flour and oil and spices, burnt entirely on the alter and never eaten by him or any other kohen.<br />
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<b>Abarbanel</b>, quoting <i>Sanhedrin</i>, teaches that this is to remind us to always improve others before considering reproving ourselves, for before the Kohen Gadol could consider offering sacrifices to atone for the people, he first had to atone for his own sins. In addition, he says, the high priest brought the same form of sacrifice as a poor man, brought it himself as a sinner, and was atoning for the sin of the Golden Calf bit by bit through these small daily sacrifices.<br />
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The next discussion of korbanos is that of the Shalmay Todah. This is the thanksgiving offering given by a Jew who had been rescued from certain forms of danger (imprisonment, illness, sea or desert travel; today we say the birkas hagomel for this purpose). The Shlamim sacrifice otherwise is one that could be brought even by a non-Jew who wishes to bring a gift before G-d for any reason. It was shared among many people (it was a whole animal and 40 loaves of bread), so as to publicize the gratitude and the appreciation of the bringer to a maximum number of people. In this way, many people could regularly be reminded in very physical terms of the good G-d does for us daily.<br />
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Kohen Gadol or poor sinner, Jew or non-Jew, all came to bring similar gifts before G-d in the Mishkan and then the Beis haMikdash. Daily they had such a physical connection with G-d in mind. At this time as we approach Pesach, we can turn our thoughts towards karbanos but also towards the daily good G-d does for us.Leesyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05672927000200379287noreply@blogger.com0